Put shrimp in a bowl, season with salt and pepper, then add 1 clove of grated garlic and 1 Tbsp of Thai sweet chili sauce and mix to coat shrimp. Cover and let marinate in fridge until you're ready to cook them (~10 minutes).
In a stock pot, heat 1 Tbsp of coconut oil over medium heat. Add shallots/onions, bell peppers, carrots and jalapeños. Season with salt and pepper and cook, stirring constantly until vegetables begin to soften (~2 minutes).
Add ginger, garlic + mushrooms and cook another couple minutes (stirring constantly), until the shallots/onions start to turn golden brown. (The goal is to not fully cook the tougher vegetables are still slightly crunchy and to make sure the mushrooms still have body to them.)
Add stock, vinegar, coconut aminos/soy sauce, miso, chili garlic sauce, sugar, red curry and five spice into pot. Stir to combine and bring to a simmer for approximately 5 minutes (vegetables should be tender).
Meanwhile, in a sauté pan, heat remaining 1 Tbsp coconut oil on medium heat. Add shrimp and its marinade to pan and cook shrimp until pink throughout (~2 minutes per side). Remove shrimp from heat (cut into pieces if desired) and add to the stock pot along with the udon noodles, green onions and bok choy/kale. Stir to combine and let simmer for 2 minutes.
Serve in bowls and garnish with green onions, cilantro and a lime wedge.